Describing people: personality

What are your roommates like?

MOM: Hi, sweetie! How's college going? Have you settled into your new apartment yet?

DAUGHTER: Hey, Mom! Yeah, it's going pretty well. It felt a little strange at first, but now I'm getting used to it. My roommates are all really nice, so that makes a big difference.

MOM: I'm glad to hear that! I was a bit nervous about you living with people you didn't know. So, tell me about them! What are your roommates like?

DAUGHTER: There are three of them—Emily, Mark, and Lily. 

We all get along pretty well. Emily was the first person I met. She's tall and slim, with long, straight brown hair. 

She usually wears colorful sweatshirts and sneakers, and she's very cheerful—always smiling. She's super friendly and funny; she tells jokes all the time. She's also outgoing and likes planning movie nights or group dinners for us. We get along really well.

MOM: She sounds like a great person to live with! What about Mark?

DAUGHTER: Mark's really different. He's a bit shorter than Emily and quite skinny, with short, curly blond hair. 

He wears glasses and has blue eyes. 

He seemed a little shy when we first met, but once you talk to him, he's really kind and helpful. 

He actually loves cooking, so he's always asking if anyone wants some food or snacks. 

Last weekend, he made homemade pizza for everyone. 

He's also very responsible with his homework. Oh, and he's very reliable—when he says he'll do something, you know he will.

MOM: Wow, that's awesome! He sounds great—I already love him. And what about Lily?

DAUGHTER: Lily's pretty quiet and a little more serious. 

She's average height, with dark, curly hair, and she usually wears jeans and hoodies. 

She's super smart and hardworking—she studies a lot! So, she spends a lot of time in her room, but she's also friendly when you get to know her. 

She helped me with my math homework yesterday and explained everything really well. It's great to have someone I can go to with my math questions.

MOM: It sounds like you've got a good mix of people! Do you all hang out together?

DAUGHTER: Yeah, we try to. Sometimes, we eat dinner together or watch TV in the living room. Emily loves planning stuff—she wants us to go to a soccer game next weekend. Mark's always up for board games, and Lily likes to join us for movies even though she's usually busy with her books.

MOM: I'm so happy you found good roommates. It sounds like you all get along well and help each other out.

DAUGHTER: Yeah, I feel lucky. I was worried I wouldn't fit in, but everyone's friendly and easy to talk to. We all have different personalities, but it works. I think this year's going to be really good.

MOM: That's great, honey. Remember, if you ever need anything or just want to talk, I'm always here.

DAUGHTER: I know, Mom. Thanks. I'll call you soon!

MOM: Okay, take care, sweetheart. Love you!

DAUGHTER: Love you too! Bye, Mom

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Positive

easy-going = relaxed and happy to accept things without  worrying or getting angry

good-tempered = cheerful and not easily made angry

laid-back = calm and relaxed

open-minded = willing to listen to, think about or accept  different ideas

well-balanced = sensible and emotionally in control

well-behaved = behaving in a way that other people think is polite or correct


Negative

absent-minded = tending to forget things, perhaps because  you are not thinking about what is around you, but about  something else

bad-tempered = often angry; in an angry mood

big-headed = having a very high opinion of how important and clever you are

narrow-minded = not willing to listen to new ideas or to the  opinions of others

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 lots of ability :

intelligent bright clever sharp shrewd able gifted talented brainy (informal)


lacking ability:

stupid foolish simple silly   brainless   daft   dumb   dim   thick

(the last five are predominantly informal words, and they can all be offensive)


clever, in a negative way, using brains to trick or deceive:

cunning crafty sly

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Attitudes towards life

Amal is pessimistic while Nia is optimistic – he always expects the worst to happen while she looks

on the bright side.

It is strange that one of the twins is so extroverted while the other is so introverted – Ben loves being the focus of attention while Jake prefers to be alone with his thoughts.

I feel very tense (or wound up / stressed out**) after a very busy day at work but, after a hot bath,

I’ll soon feel relaxed.

Eva is very sensible – she’d never do anything stupid. In other words, she’s very practical anddown-to-earth.

Roberto is very sensitive – he gets very upset (or worked-up, more informal), if he feels people are criticising him.

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Attitude towards other people

Enjoying others’ company: sociable gregarious

Disagreeing with others: quarrelsome  argumentative

Taking pleasure in others’ pain: cruel sadistic

Relaxed in attitude to self and others: easy-going even-tempered  laid-back

Not polite to others: impolite rude ill-mannered discourteous*

Telling the truth to others: honest trustworthy reliable sincere

Unhappy if others have what you do not have yourself: jealous envious

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How people relate to the social norm

She’s a bit of an odd-ball. [peculiar, strange]

He’s really over the top. [very exaggerated in behaviour]

He’s (gone) round the bend, if you ask me. [absolutely crazy/mad]

My politics are very middle- of- the- road. [very normal; no radical ideas; neither left- nor right-wing]

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Who’s who in the class?

 Idioms for people in the classroom

Sam’s teacher’s pet. [teacher’s favourite] Laura’s top of the class.

Harry is a real know-all. [thinks he knows everything]

Ali’s a bit of a big-head. [has a high opinion of him/herself] Anna’s a lazy-bones.

The last three idioms are used of people outside the classroom situation too.

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Idioms based on ‘head’

You can learn idioms by associating them with a key word or words. Two of the idioms in A, for

example, are based on gold and two on heart. Here is a set of idioms describing people based on the

word head.


                 l  your head screwed on [be sensible, informal]

                 l  a head for heights [not suffer from vertigo]

to have    l  a head like a sieve [bad memory]

                 l  a good head for figures [be good at maths]

                 l  your head in the clouds [unaware of reality]


to be head and shoulders above someone [much better than]

to bury your head in the sand [refuse to think about a difficult situation in the hope you won’t have to deal with it] to keep your head [stay calm in a difficult situation]

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Positive and negative qualities

positive

She has a heart of gold. [very kind, generous] 

He’s as good as gold. [helpful, well-behaved; used generally for children]


negative

She’s as hard as nails. [no sympathy for others]

He’s a nasty piece of work. [unpleasant]


Note also:

Her heart’s in the right place. [is a good and kind person even though they do not always seem so]

He’s such an awkward customer. [difficult person to deal with]

She’s a pain in the neck. Nobody likes her. [nuisance, difficult]

He gets on everyone’s nerves. [irritates everybody]

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positive associations

determined

thrifty economical

self-assured confident

unconventional original

frank direct open

broad-minded

enquiring*

generous

innocent

ambitious

assertive

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negative associations

obstinate stubborn pig-headed

stingy mean tight-fisted miserly*

self-important arrogant full ofyourself**

eccentric odd peculiar weird**

blunt abrupt brusque curt

unprincipled permissive

inquisitive

extravagant

naive

pushy**

nosy**

aggressive 

bossy**


* Thesewordsaremuchmore commonin  written  thaninspokenEnglish.

** Thesewordsaremuchmore commonin  spoken  thaninwrittenEnglish.

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Pair the words that have similar meanings.

brainless- silly

brusque-curt

crafty-cunning

direct-frank

down-to-earth-sensible

gifted-talented

honest-trustworthy

impolite-rude

miserly-tight-fisted

tense-wound up

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1 If you arrange to meet at 7pm,do you arriveat 7pm?

reliable

2 When you have a problem,do you think the worst will happen?

pessimistic

3 Do you find it easy to tell your boss if you feel he or she has treated you badly?

assertive

4 Do you alwaysl ook out of the window if you hear a car draw up?

 inquisitive

5 Do you often buy your friends presents for no particular reason?

extravagant

6 Do you frequently disagree with what other people say?

argumentative

7 Do you lie awake at night if someone has said something unkind to you?

sensitive

8 Do you prefer to be in the company of other people?

 sociable

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blunt-If a friend asks you i fyou like her awful new dress, would you say ‘No’?

 sensible - If you won a lot of money, would you putitin the bank rather  spend it on luxury you have always wanted?

 intelligent-Can you give the next letter in this sequence S,M,T,W,T,F?(If you are not sure of the answer,think of the days of the week.)

 even-tempered -If someone spills soup on some new clothes of yours, do you just sigh and say  ‘That’slife’?

 original-Do you never wear blue jeans?

 obstinate -Do you become even more determined to do something if people try t opersuade you not to do it?

 stressed out- Do you find it hard to sleep at night because problems aregoing round in your head?


Adjectives

PEOPLE

beautiful ( women / children)

handsome (men)

kind

gentle

smart ( fast thinker)

intelligent (with a good brain)

clever (ability to combine skills and intelligence)

friendly

Nice

calm

polite

generous

ambitious

empathic

talkative

honest

open minded

bright

passionate

hilarious

smiley

lovely

sensitive

funny

reliable

trustworthy

outgoing

easygoing

humble (= down to Earth) ---> umile

respectful

diplomatic

cool

cute (babies)

serious ( like focused)

fair

transparent

loyal

pensive ---> riflessivo

cautious

self-critique

creative

coscentious

patient

attractive

thoughtful

helpful

amazing

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FOOD

Nice

delicious

fresh

tasty

healthy

aromatic

flavourful

sophisticated

traditional

balanced

slow /fast

delicate

plentyful

homemade

scented

fragrant

refined

ripe (fruit)

memorable

inspiring

organic

BIO

gourmet

steaming

seasonal

comfort

local

vegan

vegetarian

varied

nourishing / nutricious

edible

palatable

fluffy

appetising

lush

crispy

mouth watering

desirable

tender

creamy

juicy

succulent

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CLOTHES / STYLES

 original

unique

comfortable

trendy

fashionable

high quality

classic

chic

formal

casual

elegant

resistant

long lasting

stylish

unconventional

waterproof

fireproof

UV-resistant

colourful

fit

appropriate

tailored

well made

handmade

safe

well priced

useful

sporty

branded

soft

warm

fresh / light

double-faced

smooth

reversible

elastic

gorgeous

seethrough

sexy

adaptable

versatile

discreet

vintage

transpiran


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